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SAFE
SLEEP FOR YOUR BABY
Ever since the Federal Consumer Product Safety Commission issued a study
in October 1999, warning parents not to bring babies into their mothers
beds to sleep, the controversy over this practice has heated up enormously.
Parents have, of course, been sleeping with their babies throughout recorded
history, and this night-time sharing of beds is still the norm in most
societies around the world. (In one study, Mayan mothers in Guatemala
expressed shock at the idea that anyone would put an infant to sleep in
a room all alone, considering that tantamount to child abuse.) All caring
parents, of course, have their babies safety in mind and do not
want to follow any practice that would endanger their infants. On the
contrary, they want to follow those practices that will enhance their
childrens well-being. Shared sleeping often promotes infant health
and development.
I have been closely following the recent warnings against co-sleeping,
since my research during the recent revision of THE COMPLETE BOOK OF BREASTFEEDING
found that mothers who bring their babies into bed with them breastfeed
more often and for a longer time. These babies become very closely attuned
to their mothers sleep patterns and thus learn such safe sleep habits
as moving through the different states of sleep and adjusting their breathing
patterns accordingly. Many prominent child care specialists continue to
maintain that co-sleeping is safe, when certain precautions are followed.
Parents need clear guidelines to help them protect their babies. They
dont need scare tactics (Dont ever do this!) because
many mothers will bring their babies to bed with them, no matter what
some experts say. What parents do need is help in recognizing
the risks that do existand how, with care and thought, they can
minimize them, and get the benefits of safe co-sleeping. Furthermore,
co-sleeping is not an all-or-nothing proposition. Sometimes parents will
bring their infants into bed with them, and sometimes they will put the
babies to sleep in their own cradles or cribs. Safe sleeping practices
are important no matter which option parents choose.
The following guidelines for safe co-sleeping and also separate sleeping
have been endorsed by Lawrence M. Gartner, M.D., chairperson of the Work
Group on Breastfeeding at the American Academy of Pediatrics (which issued
the newest AAP policy statement on breastfeeding), James J. McKenna, Ph.D.,
Director of the Mother-Baby Behavioral Sleep Laboratory at the University
of Notre Dame, and Marvin S. Eiger, M.D., pediatrician and consultant
on THE COMPLETE BOOK OF BREASTFEEDING.
GUIDELINES FOR SAFE INFANT
SLEEPING, EITHER WITH PARENT OR ALONE IN OWN BED
- Put the baby to sleep on his or her back, not on the stomach or side.
- Be sure that the bed or crib mattress is firm and that it fits tightly
on its frame, with no more than a one-inch space between the mattress
and any side. This will prevent your babys nose and/or mouth from
getting caught in sagging or loose bedding. New cribs and crib mattresses
by law must fit this standard. However, older cribs may no longer meet
this requirement because of wear, damage, or manufacture before current
regulations. New cribs may fail to meet the standard due to improper
assembly. Adult beds are covered by no such restriction.
- Put a sleeper-suit on the baby instead of covering him or her with
a blanket. Do not use heavy quilts, comforters, or blankets in bed with
baby.
- Do not let the baby sleep on or near a pillow. Remove all other soft
items, including stuffed toys, from the babys bed.
- Be sure that no objects can topple or collapse onto the bed.
- Be sure that the baby cannot get tangled up in his or her clothing,
and that there is nothing in the bed that can catch the clothing and
ensnare the baby.
- Do not put the baby to bed with a pacifier on a cord, or with anything
around the neck.
- Do not put the baby in a bed close enough to a drapery or Venetian
blind cord that she or he could reach or get caught in.
- Do not put the baby on a plastic mattress or sheet covering.
- Do not let any plastic bags remain on the floor, on the bed, or nearby
where the baby could roll over and fall into them.
- Bars on a crib or those attached to the side of a bed should be spaced
no farther apart than 2 3/8 inches.
GUIDELINES FOR SAFE CO-SLEEPING
(SLEEPING WITH PARENTS)
- Examine the structure of the bed closely so the baby cannot get trapped
between the mattress and the wall, bed frame, headboard, footboard,
bed railings, other furniture, or anything else. Parents often move
the bed against a wall in the belief that this will prevent a baby from
falling onto the floor, but the danger of the babys getting wedged
between the mattress and the wall still exists because parents may fail
to notice when the mattress has come away from the wall. Babies who
learn how to rock from side to side, roll over, or move up to hands
and knees and propel themselves by pushing against a flat surface can
often move to a corner of the bed, but if they become wedged between
two objects they may not have the strength and coordination to free
themselves.
- Do not let your baby sleep with you if you have had alcoholic drinks
or any drugs (medicinal or recreational) that could make you sleep heavily.
- Do not let older childrenincluding toddlerssleep next
to the baby.
- If youre overweight, put baby to sleep in his or her own cradle
or crib. Many parents use a side cart attached to the side of the bed.
- Do not put the baby to sleep in a waterbed.
- Do not put the baby to sleep on a sofa; it is apt to be both too
soft and too narrow. Furthermore, babies can slip between the pillows
and the back of the bed and suffocate.
- Do not smoke in bed or near the sleeping baby.
- Be sure the bed is low enough and that the floor is covered with a
firm but soft covering so that if the baby does fall out of bed, she
or he will not be injured.
- When both parents sleep in the same bed with the baby, each one needs
to mentally acknowledge before falling asleep the presence of the infant
in the bed. This consists of a mental notation like the car stickers
that say Baby on Board; but in this case the message is
Baby in Mind. This can virtually guarantee that the parents
will not overlie the baby during sleep, since almost all healthy, undrugged
parents sleep lightly when they know that the baby is in the bed with
them.
©Sally Wendkos Olds |
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